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dev, this is special one... i’m 24 and spent my early 20s trying to buy into the 'it girl' aesthetic, but honestly, it just felt like buying anxiety in a box tbh. moving the focus to future-proofing and literacy feels like the ultimate glow up and knowing how to manage my life is way more attractive than just looking like i do, hell yeah! thank you for this <3

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Every era rewards a certain kind of competence.

The incentives changed, so the definition of “hot” had to change too.

What reads as confidence now isn’t visibility or consumption.

It’s literacy. Restraint. The ability to understand systems and tradeoffs without panic.

That shift feels real, and overdue.

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